Surround Yourself With Positivity

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It's all about the animal prints and mixing the textures! Try it out, be bold be tenacious. Why not make a statement, you only go around this rodeo once 🙂

Every time I celebrate a birthday, I do a state of the union of my life (lol’ing at that).  It’s true you have to assess your “Union” otherwise known as your life.  Which led me to think about the importance of surrounding yourself with positive movements and vibes.  Whether it be people, things or places make a conscious effort to assess your situation and do away with the negativity.  It’s not about doing what’s popular.  It’s about doing what’s right for you. If negativity persists in finding you, like a moth to a flame, then perhaps you should try to follow your instincts more times then not. So that later on you are not kicking yourself about the negativity you let into your space when your “initial instinct” was to keep it out (see how that works :).

“Be more splendid.  Be more extraordinary.  Use every moment to fill yourself up” says Oprah!  Fill yourself up with the positive side of life.  Be a light unto yourself, so that you attract the best and filter out the rest.

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Cheers!

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Following Your Passion ~ Dr. Maya Angelou

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The clipping I saved from college when I heard Dr. Angelou speak.

I was sipping on my Chai Tea Latte the other day when I noticed Oprah staring at me.  She was looking at me from a picture, but nonetheless she was gazing.  Then I read the sleeve on my cup and it said, ” Follow your passion.  It will lead you to your purpose.”  Oh Oprah! 
You are right about that.  It’s not an easy journey but a great example of a woman that found her purpose is Dr. Maya Angelou.  What a Phenomenal Woman, who brings Oprah’s statement to life.  Let her example of following her passion be your guide in your journey toward your own purpose.

May she rest in peace.  Read Ronda Racha Penrice’s article about her life.

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Challenge Yourself, A Little Struggle Never Hurt

I long to be back in paradise on this cold NY day. A couple Thursdays ago I was on my “Body Holiday” and took a mental, physical and social media break.  Ok, so I may have hearted a few pics on IG and liked some things on FB.  But, for the most part I was detached from the world and loved it.  Every so often you need a break from everyday life to unwind, recharge, reconnect with yourself and loved ones. 

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Me with my yacht in the background 🙂

But, I am back in the concrete jungle and ready to see what I can stir up.  Stirring up good trouble! Since there is no change without a little struggle, I decided to challenge myself, especially since it is the Lenten Season.

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Concrete Jungle that I love!

When you take a hiatus from life you have time to reflect and re-evaluate. There are many changes we could all make, keeping in mind life is a journey not a destination. So, over time you grow as a person and change comes about.

I have decided to utilize the things I have around me a bit more, my stove and my juicer for starters. Basic, I know but under utilized! Yes, it takes time that I really don’t have to make that carrot juice and cook that salmon but like I said, there can be no change without a little bit of struggle. That is true for so many things in life. Nothing comes easy, you have to work for it. It makes the end result all the more sweeter. I have learned that all the tools you need to achieve your goals lie within you.

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Me, making green juice! Yay! Ignore the Malbec 🙂

Won’t you join me and challenge yourself to do the things you want to do but think you can’t because of time constraints or your preconceived notions. Go ahead and fulfill those dreams that you have buried inside. Work harder to complete your goals. You can’t pray for peace, love, joy, happiness, prosperity, success and on and on and not work for it.

Challenge yourself!

Fashionably yours,
Danalee Francesca

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Fashion Fridays: Recap of Miroslava Duma Apology for Racist Depiction

“Miroslava Duma Apologizes for Racist Photograph, Sorta | Fashionista” http://feedly.com/k/1moZxjg

Read about this earlier this week. Argh, where shall I start? I don’t like the picture, let’s start there. If the chair were used as an art piece in an exhibition or an article entitled “DisparateTreatment of Women” with no one sitting on it and it told a story of all women being seen in that light despite their professional titles and accolades and the chair was used as a symbol showing that despite how far we have come there is still a gap in our earnings and we are literally being #!@$+, then maybe the chair would sit well with me. But, here the pic just sends all types of messages of how we are seen and how they see themselves, right or wrong? Let’s flip the script. Let’s say a black woman were seated atop a white woman clothed the same would people take offense? Hard to say, might not get as much of a rise. Perhaps in that instance the focus would be more about the depiction of the woman then the actual race issue. It is interesting how history can mold our thought process to see one scenario as more inflammatory than the next and rightfully so.

Second scenario, suppose the same woman were seated atop a white woman…would white women be up in arms, would all women be up in arms simply because of how a woman has been presented? May get a totally different reaction in the second scenario.

I don’t know what the answer is definitively in each situation, but for this instance I do agree with Fashionista that the context was all wrong. Take that same chair in this third scenario and do a spread with it where Rihanna sits atop and it might be loved by the masses. Context is everything. What’s the message you are trying to send, if the message is that white is demure and black is edgy or worse trashy, well stick with your message don’t back pedal, although I strongly disagree with the picture. I think anyone taking such a photograph would have known the message you were sending, especially since you published it on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day. Don’t play the innocent role. These magazines love to get a rise out of us, lightening our skin, air brushing, now sitting on top of us. Whatever, it doesn’t get a rise from me, I am actually not that surprised, come on you can come with something stronger than that. As black women, we have seen many depictions of us and been called many things, by white men and women as well as our counterparts, both negative and positive. I don’t condone the picture or being depicted in such a light but I hope you see the irony in how they make money off of our backs.

Fashion is drama, this is one of it’s truest forms! I laugh it off, you are going to have to come harder than that to make us flinch. What do you think, art or racist?

Fashionably Not Surprised,
Danalee Francesca

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Fashion Fridays The Jean Paul Gaultier Exhibit

Creative, Unique & Inspiring!  Three words describing the French couturier Jean Paul Gaultier and his fashion.  Take a look at the 140 haute couture looks spanning his career from the 1970s to the present. I captured these pictures just for your precious eyes to feast on while visiting the Brooklyn Museum. I must say I enjoyed every part of this exhibition. Every time I turned the corner I was blown away by the art of his creations. I wanted more and he gave me more at each turn, from Madonna’s iconic bustier to the Naomi Campbell jumpsuit to the interactive mannequins that surprised you when they came to life.

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Be sure to check out this exhibit. It will be around till February 23rd. Tell me what you think?
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Wangechi Mutu A Fantastic Journey at The Brooklyn Museum

What better place to have a meeting but at the Museum, great place to cultivate new ideas, get the creative juices flowing and break away from the norm.  I have a particular love affair with this building, it’s simply beautiful inside and out. When I was younger my parents would take me to the Brooklyn Museum, the Botanic Gardens and the library all in walking distance from each other.

After getting my creativity level on high, I took in a few exhibits.  First stop, the Wangechi Mutu installation.  You must go and take it in for yourself. Words can’t describe the creativity and intricacy you see when looking at her work.  The way in which she uses fragments of pictures to create a collage of women, each expressing a different emotion, all with an inherent strength, is rather unique. She turns gross, body parts, animal yet human-like objects into several eye-catching pieces in a magnificent way.    The installation touches on our political, fashionable, racial, gender, sexual, gluttonous, sympathetic yet privileged society. This Kenyan born artist started her fantastic journey in the 1990s and continues to fascinate. My favorite pieces are the Roots of All Eves, People in Glass Towers Should Not Imagine Us, Eat Cake, The End of Eating Everything and Amazing Grace.
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You have till March to experience the exhibit first-hand. Tell me what you think?

Fashionably yours,
Danalee Francesca

Spitfire?

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Are you one?  LeAnn Rimes apparently is. Spitfire is the title of her new album, and she lays it all out emotionally in this album. You and I both know the story about her, Eddie and Brandi, so no need to gossip. Besides all that drama, LeAnn is known for speaking her mind in the true sense of a spitfire. I always liked the connotation of the word.  Not exactly sure I like Webster’s definition. I define it as a woman that doesn’t take crap from anyone, she basically says KMFA all day everyday, only when nonesense attempts to come her way, of course. 

I had a few spitfire moments lately.  People won’t always come to your rescue or even agree when you fight back against verbal attacks, you have to know how to stand up for yourself. When people test your metal make sure you Spit Fire, with a smile of course 🙂 Deepak has an even nicer solution!

Happy Friday,
Danalee Francesca

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New York’s Dover Street Market

“Without creation, there can be no progress and man cannot evolve.” Rei Kawakubu via NY Times

Rei Kawakubu’s statement gives me life. It rings true for me that if I am not creating something, anything I feel stagnant. She is the founder of Japanese label Comme des Garçons and creator of the Dover Street Market. The label was started in 1969 and is headquarted in Tokyo and Paris. The insanely popular color black dominated the 1973 line and since then a menswear line was added, along with other labels.

The Dover Street Market was first created in London, then a smaller version in Tokyo. Now Rei brings her inspiration to NY on December 21st, which marks the opening of Dover Street Market NYC in our big apple.

The multi-brand store will include of course, Comme des Garçons, LV, Saint Laurent to name a few. Andre Walker, fashion designer and artist will have an exclusive collection, that I will check out. He is a Brooklyn-based designer that has great insight into the luxurious side of the fashion industry and how it needs to change. Read this great interview with him posted on The Business of Fashion site. Emerging designers will also have a seat at this delectable fashion buffet. Paula Gerbase and Craig Green, will be among the new designers to showcase their lines.

Be sure to swing by the Rose Bakery while you are there! They will be fulfilling our hearts desires with their sweet treats, oh I can’t wait. Check it out, located at Lexington Avenue & 30th Street. Perhaps you can get in some last minute shopping *wink*!

Happy Shopping,
Danalee Francesca